Some people often wonder what a true friend is,
but can it actually be written into a context that explores the several different sides of it.
For some people a friendship is just simply having someone to spend there spare time with shopping, cinemas and what not, but other having a friendship is like havign extra family, almost so much that you round each other’s houses numerous times a week catching up on gossip.
You know that your close when you have jsut left each other but still have to ring each other or get in contact minutes later because something new happened and felt the need to share it.
Friendship is based on trust and loyalty, the fact a true friend would never ditch you for a guy but if you truely think about it; would you neglect a chance to be with a super hot guy for your friend. Truth is thats life, friendships mean making sacrifices and balancing relationships out both ways. Personally i have been left the third wheel many a time, probably because i hadl ittle confidence and let a certain person walk all over me time and time again, from this experiance i realised why the saying friends before guy’s exists. I would never put my friend in a situation where they felt uncomfortable about being around me and the guy i’m with or whatever; theres no excuses and nothing more belittling than knowing your not wanted.
On the complete opposite side, friendships work both ways and if your not going to make an effort then why the bloody hell should I.
Safety net,everybody has one person they are closet to, maybe more and to be honest i think its healthy for a human being to have someone they can confide in about every singe thing in their life and have someone there to be there saftey net ready to catch them when they fall.
What do you do when the person you most trust with every single thing in your life neglects you and they are the only person who can make things feel like they are going to be ok just disappears; You shouldn;t revolve your world around one person and too right you shouldnt because if they leave you you might just be screwed after being dependant on another.
There are so many unwritten rules of friendships; GIrls over boys or Not to cancel for a man. But what if you don;t know any of these codes, what happens then? are you screwed or can you get by simply by doing waht you personally think is best as opposed to doing what everyone else sees as the right thing.
A blog full of rhetorical questions as i believe nobody knows the anwser to such questions.
everybody ahs backstabbed there friends once in their lifetime and doen something they haven’t been proud of, but who’s to say a little mistake now and then still doesnt mean you are a good friend.